Mindful Masturbation for Men - More about Mindful Masturbation

(My Phallic Brothers, the most exciting thing this year is the new Erotic Engineering site, and my new collaborator Blue Tyger! To connect with a wonderful worldwide Brotherhood of Men in dialogue about masturbating mindfully, please click here: MM4M2 Yahoo group + for more in-depth info on Phallic Worship see: Male Mystery School and the MMS Yahoo group also you are invited to join Bateworld where I am an honorary co-moderator.)

My collaborator Blue and I are very pleased and excited to offer you gentlemen the first ever Phallic Brotherhood Fall Retreat coming up on the long weekend of September 13th-16th.

Not only will the group of wonderful men share fraternal nudity, arousal and group masturbatory practice amid beautiful natural surroundings, we will experience an all-night Blue Flower Ceremony, a Male Mystery School of mutual initiation the following morning--and most important of all we'll form a brotherly erotic community!

Many men have asked me for such events over the years and I've dreamed of this for longer than I can remember. From a very early age, I've felt intensely aware of human male sexuality. My most vivid early memory is of how amazed and fascinated I felt when I glimpsed a grown man's penis! Anything to do with nakedness and eroticism electrified me! Around age 6 or 7 a boy my age and I engaged in frottage, which produced for me an experience of ecstatic radiance and Oneness with all things. I was in Paradise...

Unfortunately as I grew older, I became painfully shy about my body and felt I was too skinny to be attractive. I spent over 30 years seeking a return to that Penis Paradise I had experieced so young. I always loved to masturbate and usually did so several times a day, but I felt there could be more to it. I wanted it to last a lot longer and go much higher. Not until my early 40s did I learn how to cultivate my erotic energy without ejaculating nearly so often. This led me to discover the essential secrets of Chinese Taoist sexual teachings and the Bengali Tantra of India, which are actually simple and powerful and can be practiced solo--despite what some teachers may say.

The essential secret is the same as that behind the ancient art of Alchemy, which is often cloaked in a lot of secrecy. The idea of turning base metals into gold, of creating or discovering a philosopher's stone or elixir of life with transmutational power is actually about using your erotic energy to refine and transform your consciousness. It's basically very simply, and yet it requires dedication and regular practice to produce results. You don't learn this in a day--it has to become your lifestyle.

Along the way, I began to share what I call Mindful Masturbation on the Internet in various groups. I eventually created 3 DVDs to coach men in the practices. My South American friend Carlos Atreides and I discovered that in high erotic states, we could enter shamanic states of cellular memory in which various male ancestors would seem to be present. A kind of retroactive "healing" of sexual wounds and frustrations of male ancestors is possible. You generate high erotic states for all of those ancestral men encoded in your DNA!

As I am also a writer, I eventually published a book that sums up all I've learned in this realm THE SECRET OF THE GOLDEN PHALLUS: MALE EROTIC ALCHEMY FOR THE 21ST CENTURY. Just before publication, my editor at Lethe Press, Toby Johnson, asked my permission to share a pre-pub copy of the book with a young film student in Florida.

This young man, Nils Taranger--whose shamanic name is Blue Tyger--was making a film called A BLUE FLOWER about his own personal journey. When Nils read my account of the sacred blue water lily of ancient Egypt, a phallic god called Nefertum, this meshed for him in perfect synchronicity withhis own quest.

Nils has turned out to be a remarkably intelligent, sweet, mystical and yet grounded, responsible fellow. He's slender as a whip, handsome as a fairytale prince, and utterly charming.

In fact, I did not jump at the chance to collaborate with him--I waited quite some time to get to know him better. As he continued to impress me, eventually I extended the offer. Together we created the Erotic Engineering Project, began to host online Pants-off Parties, and now we offer the first Phallic Brotherhood Fall Retreat.

We've got a beautiful, comfortable venue amid natural beauty reserved for our Fall Retreat in September. Please reserve your place as soon as possible! This promises to a most memorable event.

The boys have been busy!

There is quite a bit cooking in the Erotic Engineering laboratory. Bruce and Blue are excited to announce the first E2 101 GROUP class via ooVoo video conferencing! Taught by Bruce and Blue together, this new class offers 4 men the chance for personalized instruction in an intimate group setting. See the details below and RSVP soon!

Also, the E2 boys are happy to let you know about a retreat that their friends in California are holding in May. The Sacred Body Retreat is happening in Saratoga Springs, and you are invited to join. More info below! (Bruce and Blue will not be making it to this retreat, but stay tuned for upcoming E2 retreats later this year!)

Finally, the legacy of Phallic Brotherhood continues with our fourth Pants-off Party this Sunday! Don't miss out on this completely FREE opportunity to socialize and share. See details below.

Sacred Body Retreat

Take a journey using intentional touch, breath, yoga, shamanic rituals and ecstatic massage to awaken your Sacred Body. As men who love men we will remember the sacred body of the earth, the sacred body our ancestors and Spirit and of our own sacred bodies in ritual space.

May 10-12, 2013

http://www.GaySpiritualRetreats.com

Does this mean I'm disloyal to my sex? On the contrary, human malesand male sexuality are the realm of study and experience and fascination that I know and love beyond most other aspects of Nature and human nature. I adore men in general!

However that provocative and BOLD statement above (and below) came into my awareness not long ago when my Erotic Engineering cohort Blue Tyger and I were engaged in an amazing discussion with our mutual friend Toby Johnson. Toby is a brilliant scholar, gentleman, author of many books and winner of the Lambda Literary Award.

Towards the end of the video-conference interview we were recording, we waxed a bit philosophical about the state of the planet. Earth faces multiple crises at present: environmental devastation, extinctions, climate change, loss of cultures and languages, endless warfare, slaughter, rape and sexual abuse--plus a lot of denial about these serious problems that only we humans are causing and only we humans can solve.

It was Toby who said, "But then men really are the problem, are they not?" This came from a champion of gay spirituality and consciousness, because he knew what I was suggesting. Indeed, if you consider clearly, women and children contribute very little to these problems! Our whole civilization given men strongly mixed signals about ourselves, which is not our fault, but it is our responsibility to do somethign about this.

"Yes," I said, "our worst problems stem from the deep sexual frustration and touch deprivation of men. This is because the male dominant culture doesn't teach men to love themselves, on the contrary. Male sexual frustration and self-loathing trickles out and poisons everyone."

I don't have the actual video yet to quote precisely, but this is bascially what we said. Another friend of ours, Joseph Kramer, has stated that a major percentage of people, maybe 70 or 80% (?) of those being treated with traditional talk therapies and drug therapies could benefit more if they were simply taught to masturbate better.

For this reason, what Blue and I seek to foster with the Erotic Engineering Project--to bump up to previously unknown levels the masturbatory skills and self-love of human males around the world... contributes at least our golden drop of peace and love and hope into the ocean of the world's deepest challenges.

So this shoud make it more clear what I mean when I say: "MEN really ARE the problem... and MEN can solve the problem!"

Let's do it, Brothers, and lets do it for ourselves first, for one another, and for all the women, children, plants and animals of this beautiful Paradise Planet we call home!

The Rosy Pal Sunday PoP Party late last month was another wonderful sharing of aroused Phallic Brotherhood... and the next one planned for this coming Sunday afternoon 2:30-4 PM Central Time Zone USA will be on ooVoo video conferencing, rather than Skype. More than ever, I feel that all kinds of men actually long for this kind of friendly, open-hearted sharing of our penises, our self-pleasuring--our authentic and natural, naked humanity as male animals!

If you haven't seen the "Explicit Section" section of our Erotic Engineering site, which includes the spectacular video "Blue Tyger and the Blue Water Lily," plus the start of my new series on "Original Innocence," please check it it HERE!

Blue and I look forward to the naked fun-time and genuine Brotherhood of masturbating and visiting with whichever men sign up first, plus we always have a waiting list of several more men whom we invite to join the call if someone else doesn't show up, or has to drop out.

Anyway, above is the invite for YOU! If you feel drawn to participate, don't hesitate--make the connection and we'll see you and chat with you and masturbate with you on Sunday!

It's sort of like going to church for Lord Penis worshippers... only I'd call it the Temple of the Living Phallus... an all-male space for men to share what we love so much...

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The Second Online Pants-off Party and MORE...!

3.27.13

My Beloved Phallic Brothers:

It's sort of like the frenzy and stress of packing and making arrangements before a major trip away from home--when you actually leave home and all of that falls behind, it feels soooo great! Such a relief and you can relax at last! I'd been collecting the interested men for the Pants-off Party and their IDs, making sure I had connected with them... and finally just before 2:30 PM Central Time Zone, I logged on and connected with Blue.

It's always so nice to see him naked and aroused, as so often it is a kind of joyful business meeting when we connect--however delightful. Often we're simply video-chatting about our shared Erotic Engineering Project, or darting emails back andf forth in our loving conspiracy. It's not just that Blue is such an attractive young man (which he is!) it's that he's really embraced (+ he practices!) the teaching of Mindful Masturbation for Men that I share as an erotic activist. It's a joy to witness his beautiful self-pleasuring! (Which you can do in the "Explicit" section of our new site: look for the video "Blue Tyger and The Blue Water Lily.") Many men do not seem ready for this kind of erotic exploration until middle age or later, but Blue has uncommon depth, intelligence and sincerity, and sweetness...

Blue Tyger

Anyway, on Sunday afternoon of the 24th, Blue was naked, though he was still getting his cam set up to his liking, so I said, "Let me know when you're ready." Within seconds, he messaged me, "OK!", and I began to add the men for the conference call.

It's so beautiful and profound to me, to see men not only naked, but sharing their arousal and masturbation online through video conferencing! Each man is in his own place and time, yet we aretogether... sharing freedom and ecstasy in some actual, uncanny sense. At some point during this 2nd Pants-off Party, I recall saying something like, "You know, guys, this may sound a bit woo-woo, but I really feel that when we share like this, it's like our erections act like antennas--we're actually connected by more than just the vid-con!"

All of the men are beautiful! It's lovely to witness Blue--handsome, tall, lanky, nicely endowed--pleasuring himself so artfully and gracefully... and all of the other men are also glorious--radiant!

This is genuine Phallic Brotherhood, the surrender to erotic ecstasy that opens our hearts in the presence of our fellow men. More than getting off--this is getting on THE LONG TRAIN THAT GOES ALL AROUND THE WORLD! (That's the working title of a feature film I plan to make about a men's masturbation support group...) In a sense, the Pants-off Party is a seed-pattern for much of what Blue and I are cooking up for the global scope of male masturbators "out there"! We fully intend to do our bit to help humanity and the planet and promote EcoSexual Ecstasy!!!

As Blue is a gifted film maker with a Master's Degree in film, plus a computer adept as well as an Erotic Wizard in his own right, that's likely to happen! We're very excited about the erotic activism we now share as Missionaries of the Male Mysteries. We've got BIG plans, and we feel millions of men around the world hunger for what we offer. Don't you agree?! Please let us know...

Here's the URL for Part 1 of a wonderful new interview Blue has done with Joseph Kramer, founder of the Body Electric School and now of the Orgasmic Yoga Institute:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DZB9l2oYBr0&feature=youtu.be

Peace & Namaste,

Your Erotic Wizard,

Bruce

Erotic Engineering

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You are cordially invited to log-on to Skype and spend 1-1/2 hours chatting and masturbating with your Phallic Brothers...

As the radiant golden head of the rising sun crests above the hilltops across the ravine from my woodland home this morning, on a chilly and yet brilliant day so far... I'm filled with awe, gratitude and wonder for all the blessings of my life. The fact that I am a man equipped with a penis is very high on the list, yet also my privilege of being an erotic activist and encouraging men to love ourselves better--perhaps that's at the top!

My latest gift is the collaboration on the new Erotic Engineering Project with my beautiful young friend Blue Tyger, a fellow who read my recent book THE SECRET OF THE GOLDEN PHALLUSwhile he was completing his master's degree in film. Our mutual friend Toby Johnson connected us and we turned out to have a lot of interests in common. Blue has been on a spiritual quest for self-acceptance, become interested in alchemy, and he loves his magnificent penis and masturbation. After we spent several months getting acquainted, I felt impressed enough by Blue's intelligence, human decency and his devotion to the Male Mysteries, that I proposed a collaboration.

Blue has become a living demonstration of one important principle shared in my book, that of what I call the First Form of SoloSex Magick, which means to cultivate high erotic energy in your body in order to alter your consciousness. For months now, he has retained his semen though believe me, Blue masturbates quite a lot and doubtless he has plenty of sex with his adorable partner. This is the true significance behind Taoist sexual teachings, Hindu Tantra, and also the Western Mystery Traditions of Alchemy.

It's about altering your consciousness--ultimately changing yourself according to your will by using an ongoing process of self-love and self-pleasure merged into one blissful practice.

Now our new Erotic Engineering site is up and you can visit it HERE. We celebrated our first Pants-off Party (see previous blog) on a recent Sunday afternoon, sharing with a group of masturbating men online for 1-1/2 hour of virtual Phallic Brotherhood.

To continue our celebration, Blue and I now offer this discount on our services which are like nothing else you will find on the Internet.

Please, also tell any other men who might be interested in our work/play about our site. Hopefully we'll see YOU someday soon at a Pants-off Party, or even in an online coaching session.

On Sunday, February 24th, 2013, Blue Tyger and I hosted our first ever Pants-off Party to celebrate the launch of our Erotic Engineering Project, the latest iteration of the Mission I've developed for the last 17+ years as an erotic activist.

When I logged-on to Skype shortly before the stated 2:30 PM (Central Time Zone) start of the online gathering, I connected with Blue. The handsome young fellow sat back at eased, naked and fully aroused, languidly stroking the magnificent phallus that jutted up from between his legs. We chatted briefly, and I had decided to begin with my shirt on, partly so that any guys who also kept their shirt on might feel more at ease. That aspect was optional, though we required nakedness from the waist down...

So I began to add men to the conference call. One-by-one, the beautiful men appeared, and we exchanged greetings, observed one another's arousal and self-pleasuring, conversed, and I asked several of them men--if they felt willing--to share some of their experiences relevant to the topics of Mindful Masturbation and Erotic Engineering. Several of these men I've known for years and masturbated with online quite a few times--in other cases it was the first time.

Every man involved truly is beautiful in his own way, and our appearance and age varied widely.

Personally, I observed a kind of ineffable, indescribable beauty beyond words to the bodies and to what we all shared, our honest, naked arousal. Something that always amazes me about naked men masturbating is that nothing is missing! Everything important is there! By several follow-up reports from party attendees, it seems the men had a wonderful time overall. There were a few technical glitches briefly, but this was a first-time party. Many have reported feeling intense pleasure, warm and open hearts, mutual naked honesty, and when one brother groaned dramatically, some of us laughed in enjoyment of his enjoyment. Our laughter was warm-hearted and encouraging.

Blue and I felt honored to share genuine, actual Phallic Brotherhood with such a lovely, lively group of men on the video conference call. It was exciting, profound, and we experienced male camaraderie such as I've often longed for since puberty, or actually since early boyhood!

We simply socialized with our pants off, and in most cases totally naked, aroused and masturbating. This is the Wave of the Future--something men must be encouraged to share more and more, not as a competition or performance, simply sharing from open mind and open hearts. Of necessity, boundaries drop away, outgrown, and we feel uncommon freedom. It’s actually about loving ourselves in one another’s presence—which transcends the space-time that might seem to separate us, and yet does not.

On Sunday afternoon I felt I'd come home to something I've dreamed of for much of my life...

I've just created a new group here called "Pants-off Party!" which you are welcome to join!

Hopefully you have seen the new Erotic Engineering site that my collaborator Blue and I have launched to inspire and encourage masturbatory excellence among men all over the world. If not, there is a link to it under your special invitation just below.

In order to celebrate out Grand Opening and to set in motion new fun/playtime and sharing with our Brothers, we offer the following FREE online group event:

If you have not seen the Erotic Engineering site, please click HERE to visit us!

Many exciting things now unfold now in parallel with the big, thick, fleshy erection that juts up from between my legs here in the office on a chilly late January morning where I sit with my house pants open at the office desk...

Along with the New Year (already a month old, in fact!), together we Phallic Brothers stand upon the threshold of a New Frontier as Pioneers of the true Sexual Revolution of this millennium! Let me declare it: Erotic Engineering or E2 is the new frontier of our times on Planet Earth! Human males are NOW encouraged and inspired to reclaim SoloSexuality as a precious, prized and honorable orientation and practice. SoloSex is not only real sex--it's far more--it is a perfectly valid primary source of erotic pleasure, equivalent to all other forms such as oral, anal, copulation, hetero-bi-homo and so forth! E2 does not replace other forms of sex, though it can do so perfectly well. It's simply an empowering and powerful option.

E2 is a new paradigm for men who wish to reclaim male masturbation, both solo and shared with other men, as a powerful form not only of ecstatic enjoyment, but also as a major tool for personal growth, conscious evoloution and even as a path of spiritual development. Mindful Masturbation is the entry point and it leads you into Male Erotic Alchemy, the 3 Forms of Male SoloASex Magick, and then Golden Phallus Yoga. This tool-kit comprises not only the true Sexual Revoluiton at last, but a new psychedelic movement that doers not depend on drugs! We can accomplish much of benefit that entheogens offer, simply by using E2!

With my new collaborator in my Mission as an erotic activist, a young man called Blue Tyger (AKA Nils Taranger), I am launching the next stage of this booster rocket called MM4M into orbit--this time we'll reach not just hundreds of men, but thousands and eventually millions will be touched by the work we now offer.

This is a legacy for humanity on Earth and will help to take with us back to the stars that we came from.

My journey in this realm began in 1995 with my personal shift from mundane masturbation to cultivating my erotic energy like a gardener. I've been a male masturbation missionary since I began to write professionally for JackinWorld sometime before the turn of the century. With the release of the first MM4M coaching DVD in 2004, I created this site in its early form. I have facilitated MM4M workshops and written extensively on the subject. After 5 years of intense work and practice and fun, I completed the MM4M Trilogy of DVD teachings, and my Mission continues to evolve.

Somewhere in there the mantle of Erotic Wizard was bestowed upon me. Then last year, with publication of THE SECRET OF THE GOLDEN PHALLUS: MALE EROTIC ALCHEMY FOR THE 21ST CENTURY, I connected with Blue Tyger, who is not only an adorably handsome young man of 25 years, he's brilliant, sweet, talented, passionate, wise beyond his years--just a very nice, special fellow! He has experience in making films, shamanic ritual, and has become adept at Erotic Cultivation, practicing extensively the First Form of Male SoloSex Magick.

Keep tuned for a lot more exciting developments as Blue and I take over the world!

After all, those that think they're in charge aren't doing such a great job, so we might as well do it and do it much better, with loving hearts and with genuine concern for all beings. Coaching men to love themselves better is a significant key to a sustainable future for GAIA, our beloved Pachamama, as male touch deprivation, sexual frustration and shielded hearts are a big part of the problem. Only those things CAN be fixed... yet they can only be fixed by treating the root cause, using E2.

from BRUCE

Simply by reading this sentence

The boys have been busy!