Simply by reading this sentence

you have begun

your return to living in Paradise full-time!

(My Phallic Brothers, to connect with a wonderful worldwide Brotherhood of Men in dialogue about masturbating mindfully, please click here: MM4M2 Yahoo group + for more in-depth info on Phallic Worship and: Male Mystery School and the MMS Yahoo group also you are invited to join Bateworld where I am an honorary co-moderator.)

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The Blue Tyger Interview!

4.15.12

Dear Brothers:

Please check out the new youtube interview with Blue Tyger (Nils) HERE!

Don't miss it!

Peace & (((HUGS)))

Your Erotic Wizard,

Bruce

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Serving My Phallic Brothers…

3.31.12

My Beloved Phallic Brothers!!!

Exciting times here at the Mindful Masturbation Mission Command Center! Captain Bruce of the Starship MM4M at your service. All kidding aside, it IS quite amazing all the stuff currently unfolding and I imagine it has something to do with 2012, the last year of recorded history. From here onward, you see, it all goes exponential, into Singularity, meaning “Beyond All Mental Categories”!

This is the Year of the Dragon (on the Chinese calendar) and, after all, the Dragon is a major, MAJOR phallic symbol—an image of powerful male potency, strength, grace, wildness, and wisdom.

Though it’s already quite spring-like where I live, I took a bubble bath this morning and I did allow the hot water to cool a bit before I slipped into he apricot-scented towering suds and began to relax and play “Find the Sea-Serpent,” as I tend to when I take a bubble bath. Man-OMAN!!! It sticks up big and thick, the head like a flanged apricot, wanting to be found, like that One Ring in LOTR! It’s hard to believe after all these years, but playing with my penis in the way I do only get better and better…

A wise friend (she was quite a few decades older than me) told me when I was perhaps in my mid or late 20s that I would never tire of erotic pleasure and she was absolutely right! Never had the opportunity to overload, as I was actually quite inhibited until I met my partner. Then, starting in early 1996, I began to enjoy making love every day.

Before that it was sporadic and usually brief. I do recall around 1983 or ’4 a gay neighbor challenged me to see how many times he could make me come in a day. So I writhed and shouted my way through 7 complete blowjobs, though of course, the last few times my semen was not much, if detectable at all!

Anyhoo, since 1995 when I began to develop Mindful Masturbation, I’ve enjoyed many MANY times more erotic ecstasy that I did in my entire lifetime up until then.

And now, along with the MM4M DVDs that explicitly and beautifully coach you in the processes, I’ve just published THE SECRET OF THE GOLDEN PHALLUS, which will change how men of Planet Earth masturbate! (I hope…)

Also I’ll soon be announcing the first actual Male Mystery School events, several years after the first attempts to get this off the ground, it too, will happen this year!

Maybe you’ll join me on this exciting journey!

Let’s enjoy the Year of the Dragon, the last year of recorded history, until December 22 nd, which will be Day One of the New Earth!

Peace & XO,

Your Erotic Wiz,

Bruce P. Grether

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The Masturbatorium: Mutual Masturbation IS Holy!

3.16.12

My Beloved Phallic Brothers:

To touch the penis of a fellow man is a sacred thing, a holy act. To caress and massage his erection and give him pleasure, yes, of course—it is divine, if anything is! The world needs a lot more of this—plus it is especially pleasurable and an act of balance and harmony to bestow masturbatory pleasure upon another man while he gives you similar pleasure. Mutual Masturbation IS a spiritual path for men who love it!

It brings body, heart, mind and soul together as One.

Among my dreams is a future, not long from now, sooner rather than later, when there will be public places all over the world called “Masturbatoriums.” Any man may approach this place that is like a temple, without shame or inhibition, go inside into the pleasant and private surroundings where other men have gathered for similar purposes.

By agreement, men inside engage only in masturbation, mutual masturbation, and the frottage of rubbing penises against one another’s bodies, or cock2cock—yet by common agreement there is no oral or anal contact between the men. Not that there is anything wrong with such delights; yet to suck another man or be sucked, or to engage in anal contact takes things into a different realm physically, emotionally and spiritually.

Within Masturbatoriums, the space is one of Original Innocence, the Paradise Garden on Earth; and there is no competition, aggression, or harm done. Upon entering, a man may simply open his pants and extract his penis, or take off his pants, or go entirely naked; these differences are entirely voluntary. All men are expected to act responsibly out of self-respect and mutual respect, with regard to STDs, as there are some conditions that can spread through simple contact and touch. This is carefully prevented.

The interior of a Masturbatorium is pleasant and simple, has natural lighting from above with a natural, primordial décor that includes small trees, shrubbery, vines and flowering plants, artificial waterfalls and pools containing living fish and frogs and dragonflies and moths and blooming water plants—the Sacred Egyptian Blue Lotus, in particular, a phallic deity to the ancients. Also the calamus, beloved of Walt Whitman, Amorphophallus titanum, arums, stinkhorn fungi, pitcher plants, penis-shaped ’shrooms (oaks and pines for the shapes of acorns and pinecones) and other plants with particular phallic associations may be cultivated in a Masturbatorium.

There are comfortable furnishings, chairs, mostly love seats, longer couches, bed, hammocks, ottomans and stools and massage tables. Also refreshments and wholesome water are available, washing basins, towels, hand disinfectant, lubrication of various kinds, such as water-based, oil-based and silicone lubes based, are available and provided free.

Always to be displayed and honored are these…

Three Rules for Phallic Brotherhood:

1.) For the benefit of all in the Masturbatorium, a Phallic Brother keeps himself erotically pleased and happy by whatever masturbatory means he chooses and makes himself available for the erotic pleasure of his Phallic Brothers, at the very least to allow them to watch him pleasure himself. He must not prevent other Phallic Brothers from obtaining masturbatory pleasure by whatever means they choose, nor through his inaction, allow other Phallic Brothers to become erotically frustrated. This is a place of non-violence; the masturbator respects his Phallic Brothers; he harms none and serves all.

2.) A Phallic Brother obeys the wisest dictates of his own heart and mind except where it would contradict the First Rule.

3.) A Phallic Brother preserves his own safety, health and well-being so long as his actions and attitudes do not conflict with the First or Second Rules.

Let’s start founding and creating Masturbatoriums! The time is NOW!

Long may Phallic Brotherhood rule!

 Peace & XO,

Your Erotic Wizard,

Bruce

PS: Please check out the special offer to get my new book FREE! And also join my Yahoo group: MM4M2!

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3.14.12

Now Available! at Amazon

Advance Praise for The Secret of the Golden Phallus:

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The Psychedelic Penis (Revised)

2.12.12

Beloved Phallic Brothers:

During the summer of the year 2001 I had the honor and privilege of helping the great erotic activist and teacher Joseph Kramer and his friend Joe Miron to teach the first workshops for men at Easton Mountain Retreat Center, in New York State. We offered a weekend and also a five-day intensive in “Orgasmic Mindfulness.” This was my introduction to facilitating such erotic touch and awareness workshops for men.

On the last day this group of men formed two large circles with massage tables in a radial pattern. Half of the men were on the table, the other half of our numbers performed erotic massage upon the rest of the men in a rotation. There were two sessions, so that each man could be on a table, and each man could be among those doing the erotic massage.

Joseph Kramer masterfully directed this culmination of our week’s joyous work like a symphony Maestro. During the first session, our co-teacher Joe Miron was on one of the tables, while I scurried about making sure the coconut oil was warm and abundant and bringing paper towels to those who needed them. Then, as the second session was being organized, Joseph beckoned to me and told me, “Bruce, I want you to be on a table this time, to experience it.”

So for the next hour or however long it was, my erotic ecstasy built up higher and higher through that amazing process Joseph teaches, Taoist Erotic Massage. Finally, when each man was to be brought to a Big Draw, the Taoist-inspired practice that allows a man to fully absorb the erotic energy cultivated in his body without ejaculation, I was ready.

We had learned during the week, that to bring a man to this peak experience is a special art, and Joseph teaches it best. He said, “Once you have brought him to his final erotic plateau, and he does the Draw, step back silently and just witness, unless he asks to be touched. If you touch him, it will ground him and bring him out of it. I know it can be tempting to lay your hands on him, because this is an awesome, sacred experience, only just witness, unless you know you should become more involved.”

Well, when I did my draw, the dear Phallic Brother who brought me there must have forgotten those instructions. After I held my breath for ten or fifteen seconds with every muscle I could clench tightened, and then totally let go of breath and muscle contraction, he gently laid his hands upon my naked body.

Some part of me calmly whispered, “Don’t. Touch. Me.” His fingers withdrew and I zoomed up through the Tunnel of Light, completely out-of-body and to the Other Side. I had a full-blown OOB experience or perhaps even a near-death type sequence of conscious awareness, though I was not in any physical danger of death. It simply followed that classic pattern…

When I emerged from the Tunnel, I flew gently as a leaf on the wind to that far green country where several ancestors awaited me. A beloved man who had passed away about six years before, and two departed pets, a cat by his feet and a canary on his shoulder, greeted me. Just as this became emotionally overwhelming, the great lion Aslan replaced those three spirits. He puffed his cheeks up like the North Wind and blew me back through the tunnel into my body.

“It was not your time to stay there,” was the classic message.

Upon my return, I wept and wept, with a powerful mix of emotions beyond simple grief or joy. I had experienced one of the more dramatic forms of a full body orgasm, which can be a far milder floating sensation, or waves of light washing through the body, or various other forms of ecstasy. Mine was like a mini-LSD trip, somewhat Disney-fied, in full color and seeming totally real beyond your wildest CGI!

Not until another decade passed, did I finally unravel the inner mysteries of how this came about. In those years between, I taught some Mindful Masturbation workshops by myself, and continued to practice and research and created three instructional DVDs that coach men in the practice of masturbating mindfully. Then during 2011 it all came together.

Here’s the Phallic Secret of Secrets: you can train yourself with these processes to generate a wonderful psychedelic chemistry in your brain, which has a lasting effect upon your conscious evolution and spiritual growth. We now have a possible explanation for this kind of experience. During the high erotic state of an intense full body orgasm, your pineal gland may be induced to release a chemical called Dimethyltryptamine or DMT.

DMT occurs naturally in at least fifty plant species and some mammals, including humans. Structurally this astounding molecule is analogous to the neurotransmitter serotonin, melatonin, and various psychedelics. The molecule bears a structural similarity to psilocin, the active metabolite of psilocybin in the famous magic mushrooms of Mexican shamanism. Likewise the primary psychoactive of the Amazonian Indian brew called ayahuasca, always a mix of several plants, is DMT.

Sometimes this substance is called the “Spirit Molecule.” In spiritual and metaphysical terms the release of DMT from the pineal gland is sometimes called the opening of the Third Eye, Kundalini activation of the Ajna Center at the brow, or the Gate of Visions.

During the 1990s Dr. Rick Strassman conducted DMT research at the University of New Mexico, which led him to hypothesize that the pineal gland in the center of the brain contains all the components of DMT and can release the molecular substance in a manner that produces near death experiences and extraordinary altered states of consciousness.

Regardless of the precise chemical or neurological mechanisms involved, the high erotic states of ecstasy possible through Golden Phallus Yoga can definitely induce psychedelic and transformative experiences for you. Thus you may enjoy the benefits of psychedelic therapy without ingesting any drug into your body. Psychedelic experiments of the 1950s and early 1960s established the powerful and lasting benefits that can obtain from carefully conducted psychedelic therapy sessions.

So there you have it--perhaps?--the Phallic Secret of Secrets of the Psychedelic Penis!

Peace & (((HUGS)))

Your Erotic Wizard,

Bruce

PS: Please check out my premiere on YouTube HERE! ... Plus Part 2 and Part 3!

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How I Discovered GOLDEN PHALLUS YOGA... (Revised)

1.29.12

Dear Brothers in Penile Passion:

I'm enjoying a quiet and extremely intense early morning session of masturbating mindfully, at my iMac watching Ray Dragon's incredibly hot DVD called DICKFLIX PARTY, also while on my yoga mat, in various positions, and even in the hot bubble bath that I'm enjoying in honor of the freezing temp outside!

Yummmmmm... seems that there is no limit to how incredible beyond description, beyond thought, my pure penile pleasure can feel... + there's this thing that happens in the last few years--while highly aroused and consciously pleasuring myself, I periodically emit just a small amount of semen without slipping over into ejaculatory orgasm, and also without LEAVING a constant, ongoing high erotic state...

The small amount of semen becomes a remarkable lubrication that feels as good as anything posisbly can feel on the head and shaft of my throbbing, hot, thick erection...

Have also recently watched MAGIC TRIP, a fabulous, fascinating film that shows Ken Kesey and the Merry Pranksters on their famous cross-country, LSD-fueled road trip aboard the psychedelically-painted bus called "Further." While I neither advocate nor condemn anyone's drug use, it has been "A long, strange trip!" PLus I now know that with high quality, prolonged pure penile pleasure, your brain/body can be induced to create expanded states of awareness not unlike psychedelics, only safer and naturally produced within your own body. MM4M IS the psychedelic 4 the New Millennium!!! This ia a part of THE SECRET OF THE GOLDEN PHALLUS--why it happens and how to get there...

Some researchers (such as Rick Strassman, M.D., at the University of NM School of Medicine) believe that during certain extreme states of being, including Tantrick Sex, or Taoist sexual cultivation, [or Mindful Masturbation,] the pineal gland, a tiny nodule in the middle of your brain might be induced to release some kind of Tryptamine chemicals such as DMT or its precursors to create something of the kind.

Many other men besides me have learned that high erotic states can really get you HIGH!!!

My journey to GOLDEN PHALLUS YOGA began in 1995 when I watched Joseph Kramer's video FIRE ON THE MOUNTAIN and applied the erotic massage teaching to my solo practice. Now I call the more advanced potentials for your personal growth and conscious evolution beyond MM4M "Male Erotic Alchemy." The exquisite and glorious ecstatic states your penis generates for all of your body and being, can transform your daily experience to one that is consistently magnificent, joyful, and triumphant. It's a valid and natural spiritual path for men.

This does not mean you'll never suffer again or you'll ascend to post-human perfection, it simply means that you can choose to be 100% responsible for how much embodied ecstasy you experience.

Beyond the process to re-train yourself from mundane, maintenance masturbation to a truly mindful practice, after you add the Three Forms of Male Sex Magick to your skills and are initiated into the Male Mysteries... your practice moves beyond concepts, rule, or descriptions. Beyond a certain point there is "no precise description or set of instructions." When you learn to simply and deeply listen to what your own body is asking for and answer without hesitation, your practice naturally and effortlessly becomes GOLDEN PHALLUS YOGA!

Check out the new layout for the cover of my impending book HERE.

Enjoy!

Peace & Namaste,

Your Erotic Wizard,

Bruce

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This Organ of Oneness: Your Penis!!!

1.14.12

My Brothers in Penile Passion:

Do you sometimes (or maybe often!) wake up in the middle of the night or early morning with a delicious, delightful erection? Even if you are in bed with a beloved partner or spouse, you may yield to the temptation to squeeeeeeze and stroke the thick, hot thing, while your other hand may toy with those wonderful playthings, your balls! Yum... Yesss!!!???

This often happens to me, and as my beloved partner is usually sleeping, + the last thing I really wish to do is to disrupt his precious sleep, I practice Mindful Masturbation delicately, quietly--or I go downstairs where I can really go for it without inhinition and maybe using lube... or in the midst of a hot bubble bath. Oh boy! (I call this game, "Find the Sea Serpent"!) Just what the doctor ordered, right? Or at least, Dr. Bruce!

My penis, which is not especially huge despite what some guys think from my photos, SEEMS and FEEELS enormous, and it's on the way to filling up the entire Universe (at least in my fevered mind) as I continue to subtly squeeze, tickle, tug and touch its surfaces, churn its interior, and even gently yet firmly pull upon its roots deep within my body while I also massage those roots internally with perineum and anal clenches... + my balls! What can I say? It's truly indescribable what a delight it is to cup them, slide them around, push them up, pull them down, tenderly juggle them, scratch and stretch them in my scrotum--yup, the possibilities are endless! Plus, the way they shift around within the sac of skin and how it pulls at the base of my penis... miracles and wonders!!!

As I'm heading in on the home stretch working with my editor and publisher on THE SECRET OF THE GOLDEN PHALLUS my personal practice of Mindful Masturbation, Male Erotic Alchemy, and Golden Phallus Yoga all deepen and grow more pleasurable, as well as more profound. More than ever, I now realize I've barely scratched the surface of what's possible through conscious erotic engineeering for men, and yet in all modesty, I'm one of the top pioneers of the field. After all, the owner of Jackinworld, a site I wrote for for about 4 or 5 years, called me a "Global Mastrurbation Guru."

In essence, THE SECRET OF THE GOLDEN PHALLUS is that consciously employed, your pure penile pleasure has the power to take you out of your mind, beyond the mind/body duality into a genuine taste of Oneness, or non-duality. This becomes not only beneficial and therapetic, it's truly transformational! Now don't let any of the current crop of popular "non-duality teachers" convince you that this makes no sense, that somehow "Phallus Worship" is a dualistic delusion. If they say so, it only means is they have not experienced it in this way--which I have, and so do many men.

Take it from me, or rather, experience it for yourself! Trust your own experience most of all . The PHALLIC SECRET OF SECRETS is that your penis has the capacity to take you into the direct experience of Oneness that cannot be put into words. It's the Psychedelic for the New Millennium, which can take you into what Tibetans call "The Clear Light of Ultimate Reality." It's the leaves of the Tree of Life, which are for the healing of the nations, at the risk of sounding mystical.

Maybe most important to a lot of Phallic Brothers, this is the most natural and effective spiritual path for Modern Men, to really, really get into self-pleasure and to share it in Phallic Brotherhood with your felloow men.

Let's go for it, Brothers: We can change the world from within each one of us!

Peace & (((HUGS)))

Your Erotic Wizard,

Bruce

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Gratitude for YOU in 2012--my Phallic Brothers!

1.3.12

Dear Brothers in Penile Passion:

First off, as I come out of my turtle shell (no, I haven't been hiding, just deeply engaged in the adventure of being whoever and whatever I AM and working hard, in more ways that one ;-) let me thank YOU, the Phallic Bro who is reading this, for being YOU! Because you are reading this, that you're a guy on that cutting edge of male masturbators who is really into it and exploring the frontiers of Penile Paradise that many Men of Earth still don't know exist at all...

More than ever, I knowthat the deliberate, conscious pursuit if masturbatory excellence and the sharing of Phallic Brotherhood are an important Wave of the Future, and can help us to get over the destructive male dominant hetero-obsessed paradigm that endangers the planet! Let's face it, the patriarchy has screwed Gaia, and needs to be withdrawn!

The year 2012 sometimes seems ordinary and other times its seems like science fiction to a guy like me who remembers when 2001: A Space Odyssey seemed like the distant future! The New Millennium did not turn out quite that way. Still, the future is what we make it NOW, right? Because there is no future way ahead, it's actually just this weird, elusive fact that this moment, and THIS moment, and the next moment are always turning into the immediate future.

Maybe I'm getting off-subject, as this is actually about our penises and the amazing things we can learn do do with our penises, with open minds, open hearts, and some creative inspiration. As an update on my Mission to encourage Mindful Masturbation and Phallic Brotherhood, I'm heading in on the home stretch with my new non-ficiton book The Secret of the Golden Phallus: Male Erotic Alchemy for the 21st Century which will hopefully be published in the spring. It's in the final edit and revision stages with my publisher.

My friend Joseph Kramer (who founded the Body Electric School) says this book is the work of my lifetime. Well, I know that I've put all of myself, my blood, sweat, tears, and semen into Golden Phallus. However it's only part of the offerings in the process of unfolding from this here Erotic Wiz, Mr. Bruce.

I also plan to announce some Male Mystery School events for 2012 along with the publication of the book. That whole shebang has been re-envisioned as well. It's a 7-day residential retreat now, with 3 units of MMS prep, 101-103 which are workshops. You'll learn and practice Mindful Masturbation, Male Erotic Alchemy, and my new baby: Golden Phallus Yoga. Then the two-day Male Mystery School proper is not a workshop, rather its an experience and an initiation!!! (The MMS site is up for major revisions too...)

I'm scouting locations in Hawai'i, Mexico, Atlanta, NY State, and Texas. These events will require a lot of careful organizing, yet they will transform lives, including mine, so the effort will be worth it.

Likewise, my third novel, Moontusk Book 3: The Return of Othis should be out in the springtime as well.

WOW, what a year it's shaping up to be...!

And, my Brother, thank YOU for being!

Peace & Namaste,

(((HUGS)))

Your Erotic Wizard,

Bruce

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